"Investigate Your Date" - THE guide to finding out WHO you are REALLY going out with !!
With very few facts needed to start, the book directs you to websites where you can learn important information such as his full name, age, past and present addresses, people also living at those addresses, and much more. Some websites also provide a time line, so you can see when they lived at those addresses and who the roommates were at that point in time. It can be useful in some circumstances to see maiden names and when those names changed. I also give you tons of tips on how to get the base information you need to start, as well as other searches you need to do to find out additional information on your "target" person. Some of the websites listed in the book are free and others are fee-based - you choose depending how much information you need. I always suggest the free searches first and if that gives you enough information, you may not need to go further.
I have just written a new book for two reasons - the first, I am disabled and since my "temporary" disability is now going on 3 years, I need to find a new source of income !! The second reason and most important though, is that I feel there is a real need for the information contained in this book. If I can help even one woman find out the truth about the guy she is dating before she gets her heart broken (or makes commitments she can't or would rather not have to get out of), then I will have achieved my goal !! (Of course, men can use this book as well !)
Some of my own "horror" stories are included in the book. Plenty of people I have talked to did not think they needed to investigate the person they were dating, until they heard my stories !! For example, there was the guy who never even told me his real name (all I had that was real was a first name, but I tell you how I found out his name and that he was married - not before I had invested almost a year into the relationship and had developed feelings for him - I stopped seeing him right away, of course !!). Another guy told me he was divorced, but not 4 times, and not from his current wife ! Still another guy told me he was single and divorced - when I asked him about two names he had not mentioned that came up in my investigation, he told me one was his sister and the other was a second ex-wife (I was able t confirm this). But, the BIGGEST LESSON I have learned is that you have to keep checking on the guy you are dating (especially using the free sites). If I had continue to keep tabs on a guy I was dating through the 3 years that I dated him, I would have avoided really getting my heart broken. I guess love really is blind - this guy's wife confronted me about having an affair with him - he actually got married to her 2 years after we started dating !! So, he cheated on me with her, and she feels he cheated on her with me - I was there before she was, so we both got our hearts broken (although I think she is still with him - her own stupidity there !!). I have had good experiences with dating also - there really have been more of my dates who have told the truth about themselves than those who have lied. Hopefully this book will keep other people from going through the kinds of things that I have gone through (the heartache in particular) ! I give you tips for collecting the information you need to get started (you will be surprised the very few facts are needed) and I suggest many websites to use in your investigation (both free and fee-based). It will be your decision if you get enough information from the free sites or whether you need to go to some of the fee-based sites. Most of the time, you can get the information you need from the free sites !
PRICES:E-mail - a copy will be sent to your e-mail address for $8.00 (payable by PayPal).Regular mail - a hard copy of the book will be mailed to your street address for $12.00 (which includes the $2.00 shipping/handling). It will arrive in a plain brown envelope, so nobody else will know what you are receiving ! (The book has a copyright, so please do not print out multiple copies or photocopy it – please take into consideration that this is currently one of my only sources of income !) I will have a website set up for the book soon and will post the website when it is ready. Contact me for ordering information !!
Thank you for taking the time to check out my posting ! I invite you comments and criticisms of my book (or even the concept before the book comes out). I will have a section on the book's website, and will include some of those in future printings of the book as well. I sincerely hope this book can be of help !! -- Jen
